We text alot but I never seem to see her in person....healthy?

No that is not healthy. you need to see her, create some experiecne and just make a set time like on the weekend. Its ok, its only been 4 days, you need to have some fun, and no i dont mean like dirty fun i mean take her iceskating, or if theres no snow and where you are is still somewhat warm(lucky you) than take her to like an outdoor party, or even just play video games.