At what point did romance die, and why are gentleman unappreciated?

I know it stinks. I would kill to have a guy like that in my life. The girls who get guys like that do not appreciate them and what they do and they treat them like s. I know how much it takes for a guy to take the little extra step and time to be gentlemanly and if I had someone in my life like that I would let them know how much I appreciate them. Don't stop what you are doing there are women out there who will appreciate what you do you just need to find her.