This guy really hurt my feelings?

i'd bet my paycheck that he was just acting that way for the chick that he already had there so she wouldn't think he was a player and had girls coming over all the time. it would have been the same thing if it had been another girl and not you, so don't take it personally....although he does sound like a jerk because he couldn't find a better way to do it than that. i wouldn't waste any time on him and go looking elsewhere.....as long as you're happy with yourself, who give a ***** what he thinks? there are plenty of guys out there that will go out with you, and he's not one of them. even if he comes back and trys to play it off and talk to you, well, then that shows what kind of guy he REALLY is doesn't it? just the kind he didnt want her to think he was. good luck to you....