How do i get over him, i reaaly need some help my eyes are swollen from crying.?

Honey, get it together! I know it hurts and it feels like your heart is broken and you will not recover BUT YOU WILL! Think about it, why are you crying over a guy who is a cheater and a liar anyways. Yes, I know you feel like you love him but it sounds like the feeling is not mutual on his part and if he did finally end it with this other woman, he would have ended up just cheating on you with someone else. You are 21, young and beautiful, go out and find you someone who is your age. A 44 year old man who is in a relationship already, cheats on his woman with a 21 year old, sounds like he is going through some kind of mid-life crisis. And he used you to feel young again. You deserve so much better, you even said that yourself! 8 months is not that long, but take it as a hard lesson you had to learn. And when you get through this you will come out a stronger and smarter person. You have to make yourself understand, this relationship was a train wreck from the beginning! You are still so young, I am sure you get tired of hearing that, but you just are, so go have fun and live your life! I am only 27, but trust me, when I look back 6 years ago to when I was 21, I already had a kid and I was in a sucky relationship. I was with a guy who I really really thought I loved for 2 years, and found out he had someone on the side. It was awful. You have to love yourself and suffer through this, please don't go back to him. You made the smartest decision you could have possibly made for yourself. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, allow yourself to wallow in your grief for a day or so, and then get up and dust yourself off and start over fresh. You deserve someone who is gonna be with you and you only. Do you have a group of girlfriends? If you do, go for a night out on the town. If you don't, that's okay too, you can still do this. Just know, that you are gonna have to go through this hard time right now, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. Believe in yourself and know you can make it through this!